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'Is your husband babysitting?'
IT'S CALLED PARENTING.
Seriously. In two years no one has asked Nye if his wife is 'babysitting'. Because when I look after the kids it's just being a parent, when he does it it's a fucking novelty*. It drives me nuts.
*To them, not Nye. Hour for hour he probably looks after W&P more than I do.
*image by Jamie Street, aka Desert Fete.
amen.
ReplyDeleteSo very true.
ReplyDeletewanna know something crazy? i think you guys introduced me to the idea of co-parenting. and i thought i was so liberal. thanks for that though.
ReplyDeleteUgh. Why is everyone terrible?
ReplyDeleteHmm. My husband is our son's main carer (he is self-employed, part time) and my Mum still keeps asking when he's going to get a 'proper job'. Aaaaaargh.
ReplyDeleteIt ain't babysitting when IT'S YOUR OWN KID(S).
ReplyDeleteOh, right, that's what you just said.
OH MY GOD YES
ReplyDeleteMakes me insane. Add to that I work, my husband stays home. No, he's not babysitting, SAHD is his freaking full time job. Am I soooo lucky to ahve a dad who is willing to babysit? I'm soooo lucky for so many reasons...but damn if that's not one of them. We both work our butts off.
ReplyDeletepreach it, lady.
ReplyDeleteso so true. I hate it when friends have to ask if their male partners can 'babysit' so we can have dinner - surely when it's your kids it is just called 'being at home'?
ReplyDeletecouldn't have said it better. I'd have used more swear words.
ReplyDeleteOoh yes, or if your partner has the children for a day someone will say "Isn't he good?".
ReplyDeleteSo true!!
ReplyDeleteI don't even *have* children and that question drives me crazy. Is it really that much harder to ask if (other parent) is watching the kids?
ReplyDeleteThat's ludicrous! What is wrong with people? My husband has a huge role in our daughter's life.
ReplyDeleteA former colleague used to complain if he had to "babysit" his daughter and couldn't stay for a beer at the end of the day. Eventually one evening I asked him why it was babysitting? Surely, it's just being a dad? He didn't really have much of an anwer.
ReplyDeleteHe was bit of a dick.
I agree with Jean. People would always say to me - 'You're so lucky to have such a helpful husband!' Pah! He was so damn lucky to have ME!
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